What's wrong with me?
by Angela
(Somewhere North)
Mm, I'm quite pretty and also I would say an independent person.
All these girls are getting boyfriends. It freaks me out. Actually it makes me mad.
I can live my life without boys.
I feel like crap. True, I'm a picky person but so are many of my friends. What's wrong with me?
They have sometimes three bf's within few months. And I can't get any?
Tibor's reply:
Are you trying to win a marathon or to get a boyfriend? Do you compete in numbers? What is your goal? To show off others what you can do? That you can get more bf's than they do?
Something to do with self esteem.
Set your mind on your happiness instead. Boyfriend of your dreams (but again not a superman, remember, no one is perfect). And when you get one, even he will have only 80% of your imaginative requirements, make sure he will get in return what he needs as well.
You stop setting your goals according what others do. You do what is good for you. Whom you want make happy?
Your classmates or yourself?
Wish you good luck.