Virgin Wedding Night

A Virgin Wedding night? Should I wait to lose my virginity till I get married?

In many cases culture and religion are playing an important part when it comes to considering sexual intercourse prior marriage.
This is different to each religion and it is up to each person to make her/his own opinion what is right or not, based on her/his personal believes.

Or; sex before marriage?

It is romantic to stay a virgin and to give up virginity on a wedding night. And it looks simply ideal and innocent. Most men love it. They know you are their first one and it is a good feeling.
But it isn’t it more about security? They know you have no one to compare with it.

Inexperience in sex before marriage can backfire very bad. Two people are going to enter into a lifetime commitment without any knowledge what the sexual life would be.
No matter how strong is love in many cases the sexual part becomes an absolute necessity.

There are those who require sex on a regular bases and not having it will take a toll on their mood and behaviour. It can create a trap. You cannot go outside marriage (you don’t want to cheat) but at the same time you desire good quality sex (unless you get it – it will drive you nuts).

Sexual requirements vary on individual bases so much it can cause many (if not almost all) sleepless nights if you are stuck with an incompatible partner.
It is not determined by a character of a person. You may have the most lovable person in this world. It is dictated by our mother nature.

Some have extremely high libido (sex drive) – some have close to none.

You figure out what happens if an incompatible couple gets married.

As we learn to enjoy walking and later running, sex needs to be explored and learned by experience. Then you know what to expect from it and what you actually want. Reading about it by itself will widen your horizons but at the end only practice makes perfect.

No one can advice or make a decision except you and your partner. Do not expect first class sex on virgin wedding night.

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