There are endless stories about virgin bleeding and unless we know the true facts we might run into great trouble. All this false information is imprinted in our brains and it is not easy to stay open minded on this subject. However, many times things we take for absolutely granted turn out to be completely different. And this is one of the great examples.
The sad part is about the importance of it all. Imagine breaking up with YOUR loved one just because of this misconception. And it all depends on reading of one correct sentence which could change your entirely life journey’s experience. Is it not worse a bit of extra effort?
Though in some cultures it is almost taken for granted a virgin must have a hymen and she must be bleeding during the first penetration due to breaking it; that’s very far from the truth.
Some females may have a very weak and even unnoticeable hymen, or, it can break during birth, or simply during some activities such as horse riding or various exercises. It can happen without even noticing it.
I don’t need to emphasise what can happen if women’s partner doesn’t know that. In some cases it could lead to an immediate divorce or separation. Man may interpret it that his loved one was not telling him the truth and she must have had sex prior to their marriage.
After all, there should be some stain marks left on the bedding sheet?
Knowledge is power. And as you can see lack of it may have catastrophic consequences.
If you encounter this problem ask your man to read these lines. Or, consult a doctor who will be happy to assist. It might save your relationship.
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