Performance Anxiety
Performance anxiety can demonstrate its powers at any age. It happens most likely in early adolescence. We can find endless number of articles on how to deal with it. But does it really work?It may and it may not. It depends how good you are in “self brainwashing” techniques. Because it just reminds me of that. Sexual performance anxiety is of psychological origin. As soon you think about any possibility of failure before or during an intercourse it is exactly what is going to happen. A failure. An erection problem. Now how good it can be if I told you have to get comfortable, relax, more foreplay, not to worry about your penis size and usual stuff.And you shouldn’t be oriented on orgasm but on current sensations and feelings... and I could continue with few more pages on it.
While all of this is highly essential and it would work if you applied it properly it will help very few. It is easy to advice others. But to actually make psychological changes is almost impossible unless you do hypnosis and various other forms of therapy. If you suffer with performance anxiety you have three possible ways to solve this problem. The first is to helping yourself. That means to persuade your mind everything is perfectly fine. How simple (I mean to write it down). The second is to seek professional advice. To swallow pride. The third is to use medicine/herbs to combat anxiety indirectly. That is to have guaranteed results and in turn you will have no anxiety. You need to do it just several times till you get comfortable. Once you have success with intercourse you will become confident and erections will not go away any more.
A brief description how to make sexual performance anxiety to ‘go away’: 1-2 hours prior planned sex, take ¼ of Viagra (It is not absolutely necessary but it makes sex full proof). Take 1 pill (Libidus) with it, or, preferably an hour before taking Viagra (you may also use only Libidus (also under name Maxidus) without Viagra). After 1-2 hours you are ready for the best sex of your life. You will have a guaranteed erection and, of course, your anxiety will be gone. If you have a permanent partner, after few ‘sessions’ you will feel very comfortable.You will not require any more pills and you will perform just perfect. From time to time you may take some just to enhance your sexual experience.In later years it is a great way to have sex which will remind you early something you haven’t felt for twenty years and over. Libidus will have another ‘side effect’; your penis will look larger and will feel heavier while non erect. (It doesn’t grow, of course, as many products on internet claim. It just looks bigger for few days). More on Libidus:

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