My boyfriend is not interested in me anymore?

by Alice
(Massachusetts)

We've been dating on and off for almost two years now. Recently, problems are everyday and I think it's the fact that he doesn't act interested in me. He doesn't text or call.

Also he frequently ignores my text. And if, those are only basic things such as ‘Have a good night’. He doesn’t show any interest in what I’m doing. How can I get him interested? What should I do? What's happening?


Tibor's reply:


Most likely he is not interested. You don’t intend to continue with ‘ON’ and ‘OFF’ periods. These will get only leaning to more ‘OFF’s with time.

If you make improvements in a relationship it will not guarantee success.
In your case I would be looking for a new boyfriend.

If someone loves you, he/she should be attentive and happy for every single second you spend together.