Ideal Penis Size

What is an ideal penis size?

You will not find information about it in any medical book. How sad. Many any tend to ridicule and downplay the true facts.

The main problem is that not only men's penises vary in size. So does the vagina. And there you have length and width just to make it extra complicated. (We will use term 'girth' instead of width which is a circumference)

These differences will cause some women to classify a relatively average penis as large; while there will be other women who might say it is small. It is important to understand what ideal penis size means.

Then what is happening in real? How do we know what is ideal penis size?

Had you noticed if it comes to size everyone tends to talk about penis length? How ignorant! If man is about average (6 inches - 15 cm or so) with an average girth (5 inches - 12.5cm or so); girth becomes very important.

It will feel for many women much better to have 6 inches (15cm) x 5 inches (12.5cm), compared to a longer, 7 inches but very thin penis. This demonstrates that talking about length alone is misleading.

To cut out all these complications and wishful talks to a minimum, the following should be a good guide to make any couple a happy one. Because the ideal penis size (what is truly feeling good for them) for many women will exceed 7 inches (18 cm) x 5.5 inches in girth (15 cm). And that's what many young women do not admit (they simply do not know, yet).

Instead they repeat the "poem" -- It's not the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean (or variations of it). It might be true but only perhaps to the ocean's ego itself...

And it is a song for to the ears to any man who is on a smaller side. It gives an excuse of being small - but at the same time being equal to big.
Question is -- Do we want to keep lying to ourselves for the rest of our lives, or, simply open our eyes?

One of other common excuses is -- 'but she is too wet' .

There is no such a thing. When vagina lubricates well there will be less friction. Then the penis size will become even more relevant. It has to be fairly thick to keep tight connection. In this case an ideal penis size will provide for sufficient pressure.

Do you need more excuses?

• Vagina is elastic and can accommodate tightly even a small finger.
That can be achieved with a strong Kegel. That requires a conscious effort. Do you think a woman wants to have an exhausting kegel work out or she actually wants to enjoy sex?

• A favourite one -- 'Most nerve endings of vagina are near the entry, the first 2-3 inches anyway!
How great it is to be deep inside. To have vaginal orgasm. Many will never know. Again, do we want to repeat a content of anatomy books, or, do we want to have pleasure instead?

• Too big is not good because it hurts. This becomes usually the case above 20 cm plus; or 8.5 - 9 inches in length.

• Big penises are not hard enough. Sure. Another wishful thinking. They can be same as small ones -- rock hard!

• Not all penises increase their size by the same ratio while erect. Some become 2-3 times bigger, some 5 times. This means a small penis while limp might become much larger when erect compared to a penis which is large while limp. This is nice only in theory. In practice most larger penises in limp state will be also much larger while erect.

No matter what excuses we like to hear. The facts are in us -- what we really feel.

Due to the differences and the endless combinations between the couples the best is to follow your own senses. If you feel 'lose' inside her, it means your penis is not an ideal size for this particular vagina.

But -- I love her for God's sake!

No need to worry. It is so hard to find a great partner. We don't let a relationship slip away just because of this.

However, it might happen as well. If there is a huge difference it can cause an ongoing problem.
None of you would like to sacrifice living all lifetime knowing you don't feel as you should during love making. There are exceptions, of course.

What can we do?

Enlarge you penis - yes it is possible.

Or, tighten your vagina. There are two ways of doing it. One is actual tightening of vagina using special tea from Sirih leaves. (opens new window)

As they don't come cheap and it is not practical as a lifetime solution I would recommend kegel exercises instead.

It is much easier to enlarge the penis and it will achieve our goal. Though time consuming for some period of time, it is safe and permanent. We assume you are mature, 18 years old and you can join some enlargement sites.

Safest (if you follow the instructions) are natural penis enlargement or (and) using penis traction device also called penis extenders.

With these you can achieve to have an ideal penis size though it requires patience and time.

The other would include using penis vacuum pumps and penis enlargement surgery. Avoid penis enlargement surgery at any costs unless you have a micro-penis. The best is to visit your doctor to discuss the possibilities. We will discuss vacuum pumps later.

There are few of those who believe all of this is a pure nonsense. You live with what you've got, and that's it!

If someone says this to you he/she has not a smallest clue what it does to some -- especially to men.

Men with small penises choose not doing activities where they have to undress in front of their mates (e.g. football - taking shower in a group), they don't go to beaches, they don't want girlfriends in order to avoid embarrassment and it can even lead to tragic consequences. And you still want to tell him he's penis is great?
How comforting!

We could continue endlessly.

One of the most genuine reasons is because a man wants to please his woman -- to make her happy. It will make any relationship more secure at the same time. And he knows it. It will give him confidence.

To achieve this he needs the right tools to do it. Can you imagine to have an ideal penis size? Intelligence alone is not sufficient to build a tall skyscraper or fly to the moon. No matter how good he is in love making the size will always matter. And an ideal penis size will assure your success.

Average is not necessary the best. We cannot blame a woman her average sized vagina can easily accommodate much larger than average penis.

Nature didn't take this fact into calculation. An average should go perfect with an average. But it doesn't. Ideal penis size is the one we need.

Where do you get answers on this subject?

It is based on opinions of thousands of experienced women.
By experienced we mean those who had several partners and they are able to compare. No doctor or even scientist can argue this fact - ever.

Thanks to available amount of information we have several options. Anytime you think or feel there is a problem with size during sexual intercourse there is a reason behind it. If you were ideal for each other this question would not appear in your mind.

If therapist tells you, you are 'big enough', the average is 6 inches and you have 5.5 (very close to it); how does this make any difference in your life?
Will it satisfy you and your partner better by having this 'information'?
Why does this question trouble you then? Why do you even ask unless there is some truth in it?

I just wanted to show you that some comforting nonsense talk will change nothing in your life. You will stay exactly as insecure as you were before.
But there are ways to change it. If you have persistence it will happen.

By enlarging in order to achieve an ideal penis size your world will change. Your partner can work on kegel's at the same time to have mind blowing sexual experience. It is worth effort.

We could write tons of material on this subject. But why to waste our time? Instead we will answer your questions.

One last word -- Do not despair. You have a definite solution available. Decades ago this wasn't the case. Appreciate what you have and use all of the knowledge available to your advantage. To make your life and life of others a happy one.

On order to achieve ideal penis size we need to work towards it. Not everyone was born that way. How to increase the penis size? How to straighten curved penis? How to increase our sexual stamina? And much more (opens new window)

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