I like her but how do i tell her

by Juan
(Miami)

I'm 14 and I like this girl but I don't know if she likes me. I don't get out much but I know her from kindergarten and we talk some times and she came to my house two times. How can I tell her that I like her and want to go out with her... please help me :)


Reply:

It is not easy to do your job on distance. :-)

Only you know how you feel about each other. Feelings and relationships are complex.
Sometimes they work out – sometimes not. If she doesn't like you there is no chance and you have to find another girl.

What to do?

Do you feel she is happy when around you?
If yes, give her a suggestion, such as:

"Next week there is a great film in movies. I'm thinking if I should go or not. Alone it sucks. Maybe if you would like to go with me that would help.
What do you think?"

Now, it doesn't have to be cinema. It may be McDonalds, or whatever you like.

If she doesn't like the idea ask her next time something else. If she keeps refusing ask her directly if she doesn't like to go with "YOU".
And if she goes... you won. You get to know each other more and more. Then it is up to you to be smart and not to lose her.