I dont feel Horny anymore :(

by Felix
(Puerto Rico)

Hello my name is Felix. I am 15 years old and I just got some problems. I won't get horny anymore, I don't know why. I won't get horny when I see girls and the girls attract me but when my horny was gone I don't feel that anymore.

My birthday was on June and on the day I was 15 I went to my friend house to play some videogames.
I needed to go to the bathroom too pee. When I was peeing on the wrong size of the toilet so I hold my pee too pee correct way and then like, ah, strange pain came out on me on my balls. And when I got home that night I went masturbating and I didn't feel so horny like in the past.

I was feeling so strange because in the past days I wasn't horny. I was like what's wrong with me and I was like in stress and like thinking I'm turning to gay.
I don't want to be gay I like girls and want to have kids and I was thinking that I will never be horny again.
So I decided to check on Google and find some stuffs to ppl that they not feel horny too. So I created a yahoo account to tell my problem and a guys say that I lost my libido for masturbating to much and go get it back is to stop masturbating. So it will come back I can take 2, 3 weeks months even a year and I can't wait that much.

So I put another one on yahoo and I guy say eat fruits and salad and some other person say go to (this site) and ask them maybe they can help you. So I decided to go on this site to tell my problem.

Please I need to know is this normal because some people say that can be depression and I sometimes not feel like to play basketball, Xbox or nothing. Please someone help. I got this problem like a month and a half I can't be like this please help. Thank you for reading. Sorry about my English.

Tibor’s answer:

First I answer the easy part.
You need not fear you are turning to gay.
Foods will not change anything.

It is very unlikely stopping pee could cause any damage to PC muscles or anything close to it.

You need a medical check up to determine if it is not psychologically related. I doubt anyone on internet can help you with it.
There are things in life when you just can't do it otherwise.

Imagine, you have an accident and you need an urgent medical help. It is close to impossible to diagnose and help on internet.

Doctor is able to run tests and check for any damage. As per your description something happened
while you were on the toilet. It may heal in time but why to wait, suffer and leave it to chance?

If possible, I urge you to make an appointment with a doctor. There is nothing to by shy about.
You don't need to tell your mom you don't feel horny. Say something hurt you and you need to seek medical advice.
Because you are in puberty she will understand you need your privacy.

It is not right for anyone to speculate about it online because you need a sure and responsible answer.

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