How Do You Know When A Girl Is Flirting With You?

by Darrell
(Colorado)

Well, my friend, Jayson, told this girl that I liked, Sierra, in my pottery class.

After a week she started looking at me, whenever she is around. I avoid her because I'm kinda shy and nervous.

She also slides her hand across my table...I guess she's just trying to guess to get my attention.
I really like her though, but I don’t know if she likes me back. I really need to know.

Reply:

She likes you and she’s trying to get your attention as you already said.

There is one sure thing in this world – there are no guarantees. What I’m trying to say is that you’ll never know what to expect.

Unless you’ll try – you’ll never know. The question is, is she worth trying? The most likely answer is, yes!

Everybody has to make choices and take risks in their life. If you won’t give her a chance you will never have each other.

It is difficult when someone is shy. But she has no option. You are not giving her any opportunity.
You need to smile at her, look at her and just say hello, "How are you?
How is your day? What did you do yesterday?"

That gives her the opportunity to talk to you. And just talk about ordinary things. If you admit to her you are being nervous speaking to her, she will understand and she will try to make it easier for you.
After a few minutes you both will be more comfortable. There is absolutely nothing wrong about that.

These are thing which nobody else can do for you. You either find courage or you won’t have her.
You may start as friends; it is not written you have to love each other.
If she loves you back is a part of it. If you won’t try she will not love you back ever because there was never any love; you did not give it a chance...

If you’ll become friends (or in a relationship) only then you can worry about ‘not loving back’.
But you have a chance she will love you.

Life is not simple. You have to make your own decision. She would not spend her time in vein being around you if she had no interest in you.