Girlfriend Problems in Michigan

by Jared
(Taylor Michigan USA)

Ok well a girl I like is my friends X and he’s ok with me going out with her.

But my other friend likes her and thinks he’s going to get her. But I like her and she likes me but the thing is that she wants to have sex by next year and I don't know if I can give it to her that soon. I don’t know what to do.

Because I masturbate and I think I’m ready but, I’m still young and so is she. Any help with both problems?

Tibor's reply:

Scenario 1
If you will be ‘special’ to your girlfriend; she would not go for other guy. She will love you as you are and it would be not a right thing for her to leave you.
That means you could keep postponing sex until later.
In case she would leave you, then she is not a really good girlfriend for you.


Scenario 2
You have sex with her. It is very dangerous to have sex in case you are both underage, and, too young.
Plus if she became pregnant it would spell a disaster.




With two young people it is difficult to advice. Why? There are special feelings you have towards each other. Only you and she know what you feel and what you really want.
And in your case you are facing a possibility of losing her.

Still, you need to realize you are too young for sexual activities. You both need to take responsibility for your actions. Not to create problems for yourselves and your parents.
Love is ‘blind’. Once you are in love you are almost lost.

Masturbation is not a problem. Sex is different. Protection becomes priority number one.
Think it over before you make a decision. Discuss with your girlfriend. Tell her how much you want her and you don’t want to lose her.