Adolescent Masturbation


Adolescent masturbation is a necessity to release sexual energy. Most of the teenagers (it includes the adults at the same time) feel guilty about it. Because we've been conditioned to this by our society. It comes from times when talking about intimacy was unheard of.

Today, many concepts are the same. While media talks about murders and negative events in the most detailed way, to say something or to express yourself about sexuality becomes an 'adult subject'. And on top of it you are not allowed to discuss this freely with your friends or family. If yes, you are risking to be ridiculed.

Men and women do masturbate any most of them are doing it in on a regular bases.


What are the fears about adolescent masturbation? Most think it is unhealthy, a taboo, dirty thing to do...name it.

Adolescent masturbation is so common and normal. Put aside your fears. It is driven by hormonal levels. For teens this can be very frequent. A teenage boy has sex on the mind all the time. Day and night. That's how men are.

Girls are looking for more 'touch' and feelings, emotion based relationship. At this age boys and girls are so far apart in what they want.

Being aggressive and assertive, the quest to win, adolescent masturbation, is driven by testosterone. Men have plenty of it. Though much less, girls have it as well. Because we are not identical some girls can have higher testosterone levels than others. This will show in their personality - they will become more aggressive and sex driven. Very similar to men when it comes to sexual behaviour.

These are often labelled as 'sluts' of the town because they pursue sex and seek it constantly. However, they just act according to what nature prepared for them.


Masturbation promotes your body to function properly. For men -- if you think you have a smaller penis because you had masturbated at an early age - don't worry (one of the other frequently asked questions). Size of the penis has nothing to do with masturbation; or; size of any features of your body such as size of nose, feet - in fact it is not related to how short or tall you are as well.

Even while having an available partner, sometimes a person may chose to masturbate. It has nothing to do if she/he is satisfied with you. We tend to be jealous and have doubts about our ability to satisfy our partners. Too anxious... Relax. Be understanding. They just feel like it. The same happens to you.


You can't expect an instant erection after you had masturbated few times. What does it mean? If you come across a partner and it comes to sex; you may fail. You cannot plan for all events. It's ok.

All will adjust perfectly once you have a regular partner.

For any male teenager it is absolutely normal to have orgasm much faster than a woman. Condom can make you last longer because it desensitizes the penis.

When it comes to a relationship, the difficult part is that women are looking for prolonged feelings, cuddling, kissing. Men want the final result - sexual intercourse and orgasm. Once this is achieved, guess what? They are not interested in cuddling anymore. They are most of the time sleepy.

This is very natural.

This will start to change once you reach your thirties. In forties and fifties it will become balanced. Men will enjoy more touch, they will last long enough and women will be actually more orgasm oriented at the same time. We are talking in general, there always will be exceptions.

The reason for the last paragraphs is crucial to show you how things will balance themselves out with age in your favour. For both women and men.


While young, men are crazy about sex. At this age their chance to have sex with female is very low. So they tend to ‘play’ and experiment with friends.
Mutual masturbation is one of the examples. This does not make any assumption on gender orientation as this is only temporally. They do it for pure need and release. Adolescent masturbation is normal and we should treat it like a part of our lives.

Any questions about adolescent masturbation? We will continue shortly with articles about men masturbation techniques and masturbation for women.


You can't expect an instant erection after you had masturbated few times. What does it mean? If you come across a partner and it comes to sex; you may fail. You cannot plan for all events. It's ok.

All will adjust perfectly once you have a regular partner.

For any male teenager it is absolutely normal to have orgasm much faster than a woman. Condom can make you last longer because it desensitizes the penis.

When it comes to a relationship, the difficult part is that women are looking for prolonged feelings, cuddling, kissing. Men want the final result - sexual intercourse and orgasm. Once this is achieved, guess what? They are not interested in cuddling anymore. They are most of the time sleepy.

This is very natural.

This will start to change once you reach your thirties. In forties and fifties it will become balanced. Men will enjoy more touch, they will last long enough and women will be actually more orgasm oriented at the same time. We are talking in general, there always will be exceptions.

The reason for the last paragraphs is crucial to show you how things will balance themselves out with age in your favour. For both women and men.

While young, men are crazy about sex. At this age their chance to have sex with female is very low. So they tend to ‘play’ and experiment with friends.
Mutual masturbation is one of the examples. This does not make any assumption on gender orientation as this is only temporally. They do it for pure need and release. Adolescent masturbation is normal and we should treat it like a part of our lives.



For those who want to end their porno addiction I recommend the following reading Say No to Porno Addiction (opens new window)



Any questions about adolescent masturbation? We will continue shortly with articles about men masturbation techniques and masturbation for women.


Self hypnosis is also used. A hypnotised person is relaxed and more ready to accept suggestions.

 

Here is a great site in case you are interested in hypnosis. This particular one targets Hypnotic Ultimate Orgasm but it may be anything from premature ejaculation, snoring, quitting smoking to almost any bad habit or a problem you can think of.



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